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· Ladies

· Read the book and apply the techniques to your man over the next 30 days.

· Report back here as to whether it worked or not.

· It’s that simple!

· ·It does not matter whether you are married or dating, The Secrets will dramatically improve your relationship with your man.

· Even if you are single, if you apply the techniques in The Secrets, men will be drawn to you like never before, including the types of men you always wanted!

The Secrets will work for you just as it has for thousands of women across the country! You will experience depths of romance and passion you never thought possible with a man.

Take The Secrets Challenge! Tell your girlfriends to join you! Most of all, have fun on the great adventure you are about to embark on!

What This Book Will Do For You

Ladies this is the only book you will ever need regarding men!

· Are you tired of trying to guess what you did wrong?

· Are you sick of getting stuck with the wrong types of men?

· Are you curious about how to get and keep the man you really want?

· Are you ready to know how to ignite the passion in any man, no matter how long you have been together?

· Are you interested in discovering what really turns men on when it comes to sex and what turns them off?

All of this and more you will find in: The Secrets - How To Control A Man

by C. E. Cost

Book Reviews

Book Review

"Mr. Cost’s book offers a fresh perspective on the complex issue of male/female relationships. In particular, his focus is on what women need to do to get the best response out of their man. Many of his suggestions to women go against conventional wisdom making his book very controversial. While Mr. Cost covers some very serious topics in his book, he does so in a way that is very funny and entertaining."


"Mr. Cost was a guest twice on my radio talk show Conversations, on WWRL, and the response from the listening audience was overwhelming each time. Mr. Cost has written an exciting, thought-provoking book."


Dr. Jeff Gardere Psychologist

Guest on NBC Today Show, CNN, MSNBC, The Maury Povich Show, The CBS Early Morning Show and FOX News.

Book Review

"Despite the provocative title, The Secrets - How To Control A Man, is a user-friendly, well-written guide to truly captivating and capturing a man's heart, mind, and body. Mr. Cost condenses a wealth of experience and practical knowledge into a concise easy to read book that Feminist may find it too traditional, but post-feminist may find it refreshing. Women fed up with men will undoubtedly read The Secrets with keen interest and appreciation."

Dr. Seth Farber, Ph.D. Psychology

Author of: Madness, Heresy and The Rumors of Angels. Guest on: The Oprah Winfrey Show, Geraldo, and others

Book Review

"Mr. Cost has written a noteworthy and informative book - especially useful if one works with women as I do. I recommend it to all of my colleagues as well as women seeking to connect in a meaningful relationship.


John V. Staton, Psychotherapist - NYC

Book Review

“Ladies, C. E. Cost has devised a complete road-map to keeping your man right where you want him. Written from a man’s point of view, The Secrets shows how to get the things you want from your mate. Although I can’t say that I agree with every little piece of information the book offers, it does give you a little insight into what some brothers may be thinking in terms of consistency, kissing, sex and kinkiness, spontaneity, your makeup, hair, voice and smile. You’ll also find information on what turns a guy off, “The Other Woman,” and a host of other topics. This is the one to check out."

Sister 2 Sister Magazine

Book Review

“Although the title of this book seems to be a subject matter for women, men should also find its contents interesting. If for nothing else, this book contains a wealth of information delivered with humor that renders it a provocative

conversation starter at the next social gathering you attend.”


His book primarily looks at the lighter side of male/female relationships, author C.E. Cost reveals the secrets that women need to know in the never-ending quest to relate to and connect with men better. Using rather frank and in-your-face language, mixed in with humor to make his point, the author carefully defines the meaning of “control” and works from there. Also, Mr. Cost instructs women on how to keep up the proper appearance, what their tone of voice and their initial approach to a man should be, how to talk to and hold a meaningful conversation with him, how to kiss him, how and when to have sex with him, what turns men off as well as what kind of guys to avoid.


Black Men Magazine

Book Endorsements

“Ladies, C. E. Cost has devised a complete road-map to keeping your man right where you want him.  Written from a man’s point of view, The Secrets shows how to get the things you want from your mate.  Although I can’t say that I agree with every little piece of information the book offers, it does give you a little insight into what some brothers may be thinking in terms of consistency, kissing, sex and kinkiness, spontaneity, your makeup, hair, voice and smile.  You’ll also find information on what turns a guy off, “The Other Woman,” and a host of other topics. This is the one to check out."
Sister 2 Sister Magazine


"It's Raw, Rauncy and Real"
Black Hairstyle Trends Magazine


“Although the title of this book seems to be a subject matter for women, men should also find its contents interesting.  If for nothing else, this book contains a wealth of information delivered with humor that renders it a provocative conversation starter at the next social gathering you attend.”

“His book, primarily a look at the lighter side of male/female relationships, author C.E. Cost reveals the secrets that women need to know in the never-ending quest to relate to and connect with men better.  Using rather frank and in-your face language, mixed in with humor to make his point, the author carefully defines the meaning of “control” and works from there. Also, Mr. Cost instructs women on how to keep up the proper appearance, what their tone of voice and their initial approach to a man should be, how to talk to and hold a meaningful conversation with him, how to kiss him, how and when to have sex with him, what turns men off as well as what kind of guys to avoid.
Black Men Magazine


"Mr. Cost has written a noteworthy and informative book - especially useful if one works with women as I do.  I recommend it to all of my colleagues as well as women seeking to connect in a meaningful relationship.
John V. Staton, Psychotherapist - NYC 

"Despite the provocative title, The Secrets - How To  Control A Man, is a user friendly, well written guide to truly captivating and capturing a man's heart, mind, and body.  Mr. Cost condenses a wealth of experience and practical knowledge into a concise easy to read book.  Feminist may find it too traditional, but post feminist may find it refreshing.  Women fed up with men will undoubtedly read The Secrets with keen interest and appreciation."
Dr. Seth Farber, Ph.D. Psychology Author of: Madness, Heresy and The Rumors of Angels. Guest on: The Oprah Winfrey Show, Geraldo, and others. 


 "Mr. Cost’s book offers a fresh perspective on the complex issue of male/female relationships. In particular, his focus is on what women need to do to get the best response out of their man. Many of his suggestions to women go against conventional wisdom making his book very controversial. While Mr. Cost covers some very serious topics in his book, he does so in a way that is very funny and entertaining."

"Mr. Cost was a guest twice on my radio talk show Conversations, on WWRL, and the response from the listening audience was overwhelming each time. Mr. Cost has written an exciting, thought provoking book."
Dr. Jeff Gardere Psychologist
Dr. Jeff, Guest on NBC Today Show, CNN, MSNBC, The Maury Povich Show, The CBS Early Morning Show  and FOX News.


"There is an old adage that goes… 'You can't judge a book by its cover', and C.E. Cost's The Secrets… will be a pleasant, eye opening surprise to those intelligent enough to judge a book by it's content"
Reverend Dr. P. Valentine, HHC:ND Author of: The Wounded Womb


“A few weeks ago I mentioned on my mid-day show on 98.5 Kiss Fm that I picked up an interesting book at the For Sisters Only Expo in Charlotte.  I walked past a booth and then doubled back because I saw a book entitled: The Secrets: How to Control A Man.  I thought it would be good to talk about on my radio show.  That thought would prove to be more than correct.  I talked about a chapter each day. The topics included: How to Kiss Him, When to Give it Up, What Turns Guys Off, Eliminate All Pressure, The Other Women etc. Each day the response grew!  Men and women wanted to know more about the book and how to get their own copy.  I gave out the website and number, but that wasn’t enough. Doretha's Book Store  was forced to order a case!" 

"The book is an honest, straight forward and entertaining approach to giving your man what he needs to be satisfied and getting what you need to be happy in a relationship, and that's what C. E. Cost says is control!  Both men and women can appreciate the book.  It's an easy read - only 100 pages.  I read it in my driveway after getting in from Charlotte in 45 minutes!  He actually says men are not mad because he gives up The Secrets, because men want us to know what they want but may not know how to tell us! God made us to be together, so now let’s get together and make it better!”  
Tre' Tailor
WLXC - 98.5 Kiss FM Cayce, SC  29033


“Dear Mr. Cost,"The Secrets are out! I love your book!  It's like a back-stage view of male sexual secrets.  Thank you for a book written with personal  - private language, not scientific - pornographic language.  It's written so women on all levels can read, smile, and experiment with their sexual experiences.   Just reading The Secrets makes me happy!  Good Luck!"  
Harriett Walthall  Educator, NYC

“Your book was wonderful.  I laughed, I enjoyed it, and I studied it.  Those secrets are ones to live by.  I am a better woman because of it.  Now I know how to talk to my king and get results.  I can also instruct my girls on how to relate to their brothers and their future husbands.  Thanks so much for your work of art.  Our relationship is fantastic.  Sex is incredible.  You were raised well.  I take pride in being lady like instead of headstrong and loud.  I am awaiting your next book.  Blessed love and guidance.” Patricia Beauvil


"I am totally in awe about this book. I found a few things I am semi-glad to say I can identify with. I recommend this book to all women & men. It gives women a better understanding of what a man wants and how over the years we have forgotten our role as the woman(help-mate). It teaches us to be a strong neck for the head of our households. I encourage my sistas to have an open mind while reading this and deposit this great advice within yourself. I am very proud of this book and its subject. As well as the Author Mr. C. E. Cost."
Keyonna Norwood-Cole (Atlanta, GA USA)